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High-value resources for dogs

Signs of tension or guarding to view for:

What to do if your dogs don’t get along

1. list out exact “triggers” in detail. keep notes.

2. management of canine aggression to keep everyone safe.

3. work with a trainer if you need it.

4. Don’t force interactions between your dogs.

5. walk the dogs together if possible.

Other suggestions and elements on aggression between dogs:

Aggression between dogs in the same household – An example

Aggression between dogs in the same household is fairly common. In this short article I’ll give you some ideas on what to do if your dogs don’t get along.

Looking at my Instagram feed, you might assume my dogs are best pals and everything in our house is peaceful. That we all get along.

That is not reality.

At the time of this writing, my dogs are ages 12 years and 2 years. nearly a generation apart.

They are on opposite ends of the “spectrum” in so numerous ways – energy, training, maturity.

My senior canine moves at the pace of a sloth. My adolescent weimaraner … drags me.

Because of their differences, my dogs co-exist, but they rarely do things together. I walk them separately. They don’t play. When I write, they each curl up on a separate canine bed.

So when I see my dogs cuddling together, I can’t help but take a picture and post it.

But as anybody with multiple dogs knows, much more than likely you’re going to have a few growls, barks and scuffles at some point. maybe even a few fights.

Dogs are DOGS, and in some cases dogs bark, growl and bite.

So if your dogs don’t always get along, know that this is normal.

Sometimes you might have a much more major issue, and in that case I would recommend working with a trainer.

More typically than not, it simply comes down to management and making smart decisions.

I know my dogs will fight over rawhides, Kongs, bully sticks or food, for example. So I don’t give them the opportunity.

They eat in separate areas and they delight in their “goodies” in separate rooms. That is what works for us.

Here are some common “high valued” resources that could set off a fight between some dogs:

High-value resources for dogs

Bones, Kongs, rawhides, bully sticks
Food, food bowls or water bowls
Dog beds or kennels/crates
Toys
Doorways or other thresholds
A favorite person (family member, canine walker, relative, etc.)
A spot on the couch or a chair
Another dog

Signs of tension or guarding to view for:

Stiff, still posture
Lowered head
Raised hackles
Cold, hard stare
Flicking the tongue
Raised lips, showing teeth
Growling

See my post: signs of tension in dogs

Note that you have to look at these things in context and know your dogs. raised hackles does not always imply aggression, for example.

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What to do if your dogs don’t get along

1. list out exact “triggers” in detail. keep notes.

Sometimes you might not know exactly why your dogs are fighting. It helps to take comprehensive notes on each situation.

Where did the fight occur? What time of day? who was there? What items were present?

Which canine seemed to “start it” and why? how long did it last?

Write down these details so you can look for patterns and better manage your dogs in the future.

2. management of canine aggression to keep everyone safe.

Management comes down to avoiding opportunities for your dogs to fight.

Once you know what causes problems between your dogs, you can typically avoid many issues.

If certain items cause issues between your dogs, you’ll know to pick up toys, food bowls, bones, etc.
Using a gate or kennels/crates can also go a long way when you need to keep your dogs separated during meals or other “exciting” situations that can set off fights.
If you notice tension, re-direct one or both dogs with an upbeat “look hear!”, whistling or clicking your tongue

In our house, my dogs will fight over me if I’m sitting on the ground. If your dogs do this, don’t sit on the ground petting one canine unless you tell the other canine to “STAY.” Or, use gates or leashes to manage them.

3. work with a trainer if you need it.

Usually fights between dogs are over in a second and sound a lot worse than they are.

However, if you are concerned for either dog’s safety or your own safety, it is smart to speak with with a trainer.Even if you know a lot about canine behavior, it’s worth it to get a neutral opinion from someone who can observe you and your dogs.

It’s hard to recognize behaviors from our own dogs because we are biased or emotional.

4. Don’t force interactions between your dogs.

Dogs don’t have to be best friends. They just need to co-exist.

When we got our weimaraner puppy in 2016, I was planning on taking cute photos of the dogs together the day we got our puppy.

Turns out, my senior canine would snarl at our puppy if they were too close so I didn’t get numerous pictures of them together whatsoever when Remy was little!

This is just one example of how you have to change plans in some cases to accommodate your dogs’ needs.

Don’t force your dogs beyond their limits, and don’t rush. I have a good example below of a mistake I made that caused a fight between my dogs recently.

Unfortunately, canine fights are typically the person’s fault. it all goes back to management, prevention and making smart choices.

5. walk the dogs together if possible.

Most dogs will get along during a walk, and this is a terrific way to involve your whole family. The dogs are out doing something fun together with no pressure. They are spending time together in a positive, safe way.

My senior canine can be a complete grouch in the house, but when I take my two dogs outside they get along much better.

They like to follow each other around sniffing the same plants and grassy areas together. When we first got our puppy, this was the best way to let my two dogs interact.

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Other suggestions and elements on aggression between dogs:

Avoid greeting your dogs excitedly, especially in doorways or tight spaces
If a fight breaks out, try to startle the dogs with a loud “hey!” or clap your hands. Or you can try throwing water on them.
Separate your dogs when they’re home alone
Consider spaying/neutering. This won’t resolve your problem but it can help along with training.
Don’t allow dogs to excitedly greet visitors together. too much excitement can in some cases set off a fight.
Don’t allow too much excitement running and playing in the yard together
Use a muzzle if needed
Some dogs just aren’t a good fit and it might be best to re-home one dog.
One canine may be grouchy due to pain
Stay calm. in some cases people set off tension or aggression by adding too much excitement or tension to the situation
Make sure each canine gets plenty of exercise and training

Aggression between dogs in the same household – An example

My senior canine Ace raises his lips and shows teeth whenever Remy the weimaraner tries to curl up next to him.

Remy likes to test Ace’s seriousness by tip-toeing closer and giving him a quick lick to the nose.

Sometimes Ace will give in and let Remy in for a cuddle. typically they have a harmless “argument” where they bark until Remy walks away. It’s just “talk” and they do this every day.

But last week, I was sitting on the floor petting Ace when this happened.

Anyone reading this will see my apparent mistakes.

Normally Ace would growl, Remy would bark and then walk away. but this time I tried to coax Remy closer.

I caused tension by pushing my dogs too far.

For 3 seconds they got into an actual fight biting at each other until one of them bit ME.

I set them up for the fight to begin with and then I put my hands in the mix.

Do NOT put your hands into a canine fight, people. Doh!

Of course, after this “explosion” my dogs forgot about it quickly as dogs tend to do.

They shook themselves off and within the hour they were curled up together on the canine bed like nothing happened.

Dogs …

I wanted to share that story because living with multiple dogs takes some work, and it’s never going to be perfect.

My two men are very easygoing, and I have a lot of experience managing dogs through fostering and pet sitting. but in some cases I still make mistakes.

I hope this post gives you some ideas for dealing with your own dogs, and if you need some help from a trainer, don’t hesitate to do so.

Do you have multiple dogs? how do they typically get along?

What other suggestions would you add to this list?

Let me know in the comments!

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More resources:

How to break a dog’s possessiveness
How to introduce your canine to a new puppy
How to introduce dogs
What to do if your canine is aggressive to your new puppy
My canine growls at other dogs – what to do
Dog to canine resource guarding – Patricia McConnell

Lindsay Stordahl is the founder of That Mutt. She writes about canine training, canine exercise and feeding a healthy raw diet.

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